How to Say “Ex-Company Employee” and “Ex-Boyfriend” in Japanese 💔💼
Ex-Company Employee
元(もと)社員
Metaの元社員 – Ex-employee of Meta
元TikTokのエンジニア- Ex-TikTok engineer
Ex-Boyfriend
元(もと)カレ
This is the most straightforward translation. Think of it as the Japanese equivalent of just saying “ex.” It’s casual and widely understood.
元カレとバッタリ会っちゃった… I bumped into my ex… (Casual, expressing surprise/discomfort)
元カレの話はもういいよ。 I don’t want to talk about my ex anymore. (Direct and possibly irritated)
前の彼氏
This translates to “previous boyfriend.” It feels slightly softer and less abrupt than 元カレ.
前の彼氏とはまだ友達だよ。 I’m still friends with my ex-boyfriend. (Neutral and informative)
前の彼氏から連絡(れんらく)が来たんだけど… I got a message from my ex-boyfriend, but… (Slightly hesitant, leading into a story)
別(わか)れた彼氏
This means “the boyfriend I broke up with.” It’s more descriptive and emphasizes the past relationship.
別れた彼氏のこと、まだ少し考えてる。 I’m still thinking about my ex-boyfriend a little. (Honest and slightly melancholic)
彼氏だった人
This translates to “the person who was my boyfriend.” This is the most formal and distant option, often used when the relationship ended a long time ago, or you want to downplay its significance.
彼氏だった人とは、もう何年も連絡を取(と)ってない。 I haven’t contacted the person who was my boyfriend for years. (Formal and distant)
There are so many て form songs on YouTube, but this is the one I learned in class a couple of years ago and I couldn’t find the exact one. So I’m recording it for backup purposes in case my memory fails me.
うつる->って
ぶむぬ->んで
く->いて ぐ->いで
す->して
くる->きって
する->して
例外 (れいがい)→行って
て form songmeowbrown
For る verbs like 食べる, all you do is replace る with て so no need to memorize.
I wonder how everyone else learned their て forms 🤔
People can still understand you even if you don’t know this.
Why I’m learning this now
I started Indonesian with conversations and didn’t want to care too much about rules and grammar. Up until now, I’ve randomly add me- when I feel like it 🤣 truth is, people will still understand.
I feel like I’ve been stuck in the same level for some time, so trying to pick up these rules bit by bit.
How is it used
Used for active verbs, indicating an action performed by a subject.
Prefix: root word starts with (red means the letter is dropped)
me + m: b, f, p
me + n: d, j, c, t
me + ng: vowels, g, h, k
me + ny: s
me: everything else
Examples
B: beli (buy) – membeli
F: fokus (focus) – memfokuskan (make notes on the -kan affix in the future)
P: pakai (use) – memakai (note: ‘p’ dropped)
D: dengar (hear) – mendengar
J: jual (sell) – menjual
C: cuci (wash) – mencuci
T: tulis (write) – menulis (note: ’t’ dropped)
A: ambil (take) – mengambil
G: ganti (change) – mengganti
H: hafal (memorize) – menghafal (note: more academic word than mengingat)